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it's not and the same thing. It's not us for STEM. It's he goes make a table of your needs and your, like, basically your needs and then your gives. So, like, what do you have to offer? And then what do you what do you need back? And then what do they have to offer? What do you need back? And they're never, like, perfectly symmetrical. It's not like and so for example, some of the things they need are very easy for me to give. Cost me nothing, or I'm totally comfortable giving that, and it's actually their fear or their their big sticking point was something that's not so hard for me to to to give on, or maybe I could go out of my way to give more even than they're than they're they're expecting in that area. And in this other area, I need something and then they they're happy to give it. And so that's usually the the better way to do it. My my favorite question. Is what would need to be true. So it's like, okay, you wanna sell your business for a hundred million dollars. What would need to be true for me to pay a hundred million dollars for And you can just lay it out, like, like, what would make this a no brainer? And you can do that in any situation. And, you know, sometimes it's impossible, but oftentimes, it's far more possible than you think when everyone actually lays that out. Because usually there's some sticking point that you don't realize or or, you know, it's something that is kinda outside of the scope of things you've already talked about. And I'm always amazed by how much that works. That works, like, as I've been fundraising, it works there. Like, what would need to be true for you to be like, oh, it's easy for you to give you money or,
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